Jesus said, "Take care what you listen to. By your standard of measure it shall be measured to you; and more shall be given you besides." Mark 4:24
McGraw Hill’s textbook, The Art of Public Speaking by Stephen Lucas, includes a whole chapter on “listening.” Lucas wrote, “Although most people listen poorly, there are exceptions. Top-flight business executives, successful politicians, brilliant terachers — nearly all are excellent listeners." Interestingly, those who have worked closely with President Trump describe him as a good listener who listens to everyone. Lucas goes on to write,"According to one study, more than 60 percent of errors made in business come from poor listening. When business managers are asked to rank-order the communications skills most crucial to their jobs, they usually rank listening number one.” Listening by itself is not beneficial unless it’s followed by understanding. Most people listen to reply, not to understand. Those who listen to reply are more apt to misunderstand and to disagree. Have you ever witnessed, read, or seen something that confirms what you’ve always believed? Sure! Afterward have you ever learned from clear evidence that your memory of that “something” was not accurate? That’s called long-term memory distortion. It’s not uncommon. A friend and I were discussing what we might learn from declassified documents of JFK’s, MLK’s, and RFK’s assassinations. We had read a post on Facebook by someone who confidently stated he always knew who killed JFK. He was really angry and turned his anger toward all the "lies" we hear today. We soon found evidence of misinformation in the writer’s rant and concluded something was amiss, even though we had believed evidence that “proved” JFK’s assassination was not the result of one man acting alone. Then my friend told me a story about a baseball game between Notre Dame and our beloved MSU Bulldogs in 2000. He vividly remembered a terrible collision at home plate that was illegal. My friend said, “From then on, every time he came to bat, there was a storm of boos and jeers from the home crowd.” My friend, a fellow faculty member here at MSU, then confessed, “For years, I told the story in class, that [the Notre Dame player] rounded third base, saw we had him dead to rights, and took the only out he could think of, absolutely smashing into our catcher.” After a pause, my friend told me his memory of the play was exactly opposite of what he had believed. In the 2000 game one of our baserunners plowed into the Notre Dame catcher in a great collision. In 2021 we played Notre Dame at home during our National Championship run, and the national press wrote about the collision at home plate in 2000. My friend was horrified that he had not only misremembered the event, but that for 21 years he had told his students the wrong story. Remembering and believing are married. Why do we believe what we believe? Do we critically examine what we witness and hear? Do we listen to understand? Is anger quicker than our own understanding? Anger blinds reason and hides truth. “But let everyone be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger; for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God.” James 1:19-20 Daniel L. Gardner is a columnist who lives in Starkville, MS. You may contact him at PJandMe2@gmail.com.Saturday, May 17, 2025
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Trollfest '07 was such a success that Jackson Jambalaya will once again host Trollfest '09. Catch this great event which will leave NE Jackson & Fondren in flames. Othor Cain and his band, The Black Power Structure headline the night while Sonjay Poontang returns for an encore performance. Former Frank Melton bodyguard Marcus Wright makes his premier appearance at Trollfest singing "I'm a Sweet Transvestite" from "The Rocky Horror Picture Show." Kamikaze will sing his new hit, “How I sold out to da Man.” Robbie Bell again performs: “Mamas, don't let your babies grow up to be Bells” and “Any friend of Ed Peters is a friend of mine”. After the show, Ms. Bell will autograph copies of her mug shot photos. In a salute to “Dancing with the Stars”, Ms. Bell and Hinds County District Attorney Robert Smith will dance the Wango Tango.
Wrestling returns, except this time it will be a Battle Royal with Othor Cain, Ben Allen, Kim Wade, Haley Fisackerly, Alan Lange, and “Big Cat” Donna Ladd all in the ring at the same time. The Battle Royal will be in a steel cage, no time limit, no referee, and the losers must leave town. Marshand Crisler will be the honorary referee (as it gives him a title without actually having to do anything).
Meet KIM Waaaaaade at the Entergy Tent. For five pesos, Kim will sell you a chance to win a deed to a crack house on Ridgeway Street stuffed in the Howard Industries pinata. Don't worry if the pinata is beaten to shreds, as Mr. Wade has Jose, Emmanuel, and Carlos, all illegal immigrants, available as replacements for the it. Upon leaving the Entergy tent, fig leaves will be available in case Entergy literally takes everything you have as part of its Trollfest ticket price adjustment charge.
Donna Ladd of The Jackson Free Press will give several classes on learning how to write. Smearing, writing without factchecking, and reporting only one side of a story will be covered. A donation to pay their taxes will be accepted and she will be signing copies of their former federal tax liens. Ms. Ladd will give a dramatic reading of her two award-winning essays (They received The Jackson Free Press "Best Of" awards.) "Why everything is always about me" and "Why I cover murders better than anyone else in Jackson".
In the spirit of helping those who are less fortunate, Trollfest '09 adopts a cause for which a portion of the proceeds and donations will be donated: Keeping Frank Melton in his home. The “Keep Frank Melton From Being Homeless” booth will sell chances for five dollars to pin the tail on the jackass. John Reeves has graciously volunteered to be the jackass for this honorable excursion into saving Frank's ass. What's an ass between two friends after all? If Mr. Reeves is unable to um, perform, Speaker Billy McCoy has also volunteered as when the word “jackass” was mentioned he immediately ran as fast as he could to sign up.
In order to help clean up the legal profession, Adam Kilgore of the Mississippi Bar will be giving away free, round-trip plane tickets to the North Pole where they keep their bar complaint forms (which are NOT available online). If you don't want to go to the North Pole, you can enjoy Brant Brantley's (of the Mississippi Commission on Judicial Performance) free guided tours of the quicksand field over by High Street where all complaints against judges disappear. If for some reason you are unable to control yourself, never fear; Judge Houston Patton will operate his jail where no lawyers are needed or allowed as you just sit there for minutes... hours.... months...years until he decides he is tired of you sitting in his jail. Do not think Judge Patton is a bad judge however as he plans to serve free Mad Dog 20/20 to all inmates.
Trollfest '09 is a pet-friendly event as well. Feel free to bring your dog with you and do not worry if your pet gets hungry, as employees of the Jackson Zoo will be on hand to provide some of their animals as food when it gets to be feeding time for your little loved one.
Relax at the Fox News Tent. Since there are only three blonde reporters in Jackson (being blonde is a requirement for working at Fox News), Megan and Kathryn from WAPT and Wendy from WLBT will be on loan to Fox. To gain admittance to the VIP section, bring either your Republican Party ID card or a Rebel Flag. Bringing both and a torn-up Obama yard sign will entitle you to free drinks served by Megan, Wendy, and Kathryn. Get your tickets now. Since this is an event for trolls, no ID is required. Just bring the hate. Bring the family, Trollfest '09 is for EVERYONE!!!
This is definitely a Beaver production.
Note: Security provided by INS.
Wrestling returns, except this time it will be a Battle Royal with Othor Cain, Ben Allen, Kim Wade, Haley Fisackerly, Alan Lange, and “Big Cat” Donna Ladd all in the ring at the same time. The Battle Royal will be in a steel cage, no time limit, no referee, and the losers must leave town. Marshand Crisler will be the honorary referee (as it gives him a title without actually having to do anything).
Meet KIM Waaaaaade at the Entergy Tent. For five pesos, Kim will sell you a chance to win a deed to a crack house on Ridgeway Street stuffed in the Howard Industries pinata. Don't worry if the pinata is beaten to shreds, as Mr. Wade has Jose, Emmanuel, and Carlos, all illegal immigrants, available as replacements for the it. Upon leaving the Entergy tent, fig leaves will be available in case Entergy literally takes everything you have as part of its Trollfest ticket price adjustment charge.
Donna Ladd of The Jackson Free Press will give several classes on learning how to write. Smearing, writing without factchecking, and reporting only one side of a story will be covered. A donation to pay their taxes will be accepted and she will be signing copies of their former federal tax liens. Ms. Ladd will give a dramatic reading of her two award-winning essays (They received The Jackson Free Press "Best Of" awards.) "Why everything is always about me" and "Why I cover murders better than anyone else in Jackson".
In the spirit of helping those who are less fortunate, Trollfest '09 adopts a cause for which a portion of the proceeds and donations will be donated: Keeping Frank Melton in his home. The “Keep Frank Melton From Being Homeless” booth will sell chances for five dollars to pin the tail on the jackass. John Reeves has graciously volunteered to be the jackass for this honorable excursion into saving Frank's ass. What's an ass between two friends after all? If Mr. Reeves is unable to um, perform, Speaker Billy McCoy has also volunteered as when the word “jackass” was mentioned he immediately ran as fast as he could to sign up.
In order to help clean up the legal profession, Adam Kilgore of the Mississippi Bar will be giving away free, round-trip plane tickets to the North Pole where they keep their bar complaint forms (which are NOT available online). If you don't want to go to the North Pole, you can enjoy Brant Brantley's (of the Mississippi Commission on Judicial Performance) free guided tours of the quicksand field over by High Street where all complaints against judges disappear. If for some reason you are unable to control yourself, never fear; Judge Houston Patton will operate his jail where no lawyers are needed or allowed as you just sit there for minutes... hours.... months...years until he decides he is tired of you sitting in his jail. Do not think Judge Patton is a bad judge however as he plans to serve free Mad Dog 20/20 to all inmates.
Trollfest '09 is a pet-friendly event as well. Feel free to bring your dog with you and do not worry if your pet gets hungry, as employees of the Jackson Zoo will be on hand to provide some of their animals as food when it gets to be feeding time for your little loved one.
Relax at the Fox News Tent. Since there are only three blonde reporters in Jackson (being blonde is a requirement for working at Fox News), Megan and Kathryn from WAPT and Wendy from WLBT will be on loan to Fox. To gain admittance to the VIP section, bring either your Republican Party ID card or a Rebel Flag. Bringing both and a torn-up Obama yard sign will entitle you to free drinks served by Megan, Wendy, and Kathryn. Get your tickets now. Since this is an event for trolls, no ID is required. Just bring the hate. Bring the family, Trollfest '09 is for EVERYONE!!!
This is definitely a Beaver production.
Note: Security provided by INS.
Trollfest '07
Jackson Jambalaya is the home of Trollfest '07. Catch this great event which promises to leave NE Jackson & Fondren in flames. Sonjay Poontang and his band headline the night with a special steel cage, no time limit "loser must leave town" bout between Alan Lange and "Big Cat"Donna Ladd following afterwards. Kamikaze will perform his new song F*** Bush, he's still a _____. Did I mention there was no referee? Dr. Heddy Matthias and Lori Gregory will face off in the undercard dueling with dangling participles and other um, devices. Robbie Bell will perform Her two latest songs: My Best Friends are in the Media and Mama's, Don't Let Your Babies Grow up to be George Bell. Sid Salter of The Clarion-Ledger will host "Pin the Tail on the Trial Lawyer", sponsored by State Farm.
There will be a hugging booth where in exchange for your young son, Frank Melton will give you a loooong hug. Trollfest will have a dunking booth where Muhammed the terrorist will curse you to Allah as you try to hit a target that will drop him into a vat of pig grease. However, in the true spirit of Separate But Equal, Don Imus and someone from NE Jackson will also sit in the dunking booth for an equal amount of time. Tom Head will give a reading for two hours on why he can't figure out who the hell he is. Cliff Cargill will give lessons with his .80 caliber desert eagle, using Frank Melton photos as targets. Tackleberry will be on hand for an autograph session. KIM Waaaaaade will be passing out free titles and deeds to crackhouses formerly owned by The Wood Street Players.
If you get tired come relax at the Fox News Tent. To gain admittance to the VIP section, bring either your Republican Party ID card or a Rebel Flag. Bringing both will entitle you to free drinks.Get your tickets now. Since this is an event for trolls, no ID is required, just bring the hate. Bring the family, Trollfest '07 is for EVERYONE!!!
This is definitely a Beaver production.
Note: Security provided by INS.
There will be a hugging booth where in exchange for your young son, Frank Melton will give you a loooong hug. Trollfest will have a dunking booth where Muhammed the terrorist will curse you to Allah as you try to hit a target that will drop him into a vat of pig grease. However, in the true spirit of Separate But Equal, Don Imus and someone from NE Jackson will also sit in the dunking booth for an equal amount of time. Tom Head will give a reading for two hours on why he can't figure out who the hell he is. Cliff Cargill will give lessons with his .80 caliber desert eagle, using Frank Melton photos as targets. Tackleberry will be on hand for an autograph session. KIM Waaaaaade will be passing out free titles and deeds to crackhouses formerly owned by The Wood Street Players.
If you get tired come relax at the Fox News Tent. To gain admittance to the VIP section, bring either your Republican Party ID card or a Rebel Flag. Bringing both will entitle you to free drinks.Get your tickets now. Since this is an event for trolls, no ID is required, just bring the hate. Bring the family, Trollfest '07 is for EVERYONE!!!
This is definitely a Beaver production.
Note: Security provided by INS.
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I know people who lie, cheat, steal and got handed a golden goose. It made them crooks that were lucky, not necessarily successful, but crooks.
You obviously Have heard or understood and word said by the current occupant of the White House.
Matthew 13:15 states: "For this people's heart has become calloused; they hardly hear with their ears, and they have closed their eyes. Otherwise they might see with their eyes, hear with their ears, understand with their hearts, and turn, and I would heal them." This verse reflects the spiritual blindness of the people, indicating a refusal to recognize the truth." Take your own advice lest you become one of the "Brood of vipers and hypocrites. Too Late.
If Gardner had deleted the paragraph beginning with "Lucas goes on to write..." his observation regarding our president would make lots of sense. Otherwise a waste of time.
I wonder if DL believes that Walmart should just eat the tariffs as Trump has suggested ? What should Walmart tell their shareholders ?
@3:24 Americans have made us wealthy and it is time to do what it takes to stick to our company mission statement to save people money so that they can live better because we believe that doing so is an investment in America.
4:10 You are kidding right?
@4:10 pass that joint, Walmarts mission is to return income for their investors
Is Trump going to listen when the poor folks in Kentucky devastated by tornados call for help? When Arkansas screamed for help, he left them hanging.
4:48 & 5:26 I have an MBA and Walmart has been in the loss-leader business for a long time. They will sell a Chinese 4K TV for $100 so you will also buy the PlayStation5 GTA 6 bundle from them for $600
Marketing 101, when you sell that bundle you increase you margins, your not giving anything away.
As I write this, there are nine comments to this post. Four comments are anti-Trump screeds, one of which, out of thin air, pulls Wal-Mart into the discussion. Next is an apparent Wal-Mart insider/employee who politely informs the anti-Wal-Mart imbecile of Wal-Mart's mission statement. Two dopeheads show up begging for somebody else's dope (Get a job and bring your own, beggars!), and a MBA appears politely informing the imbecile of an important part of Wal-Mart's business strategy. It is unclear what the very first comment is referencing due to its incoherence, but it might be another anti-Trump screed. Now, I show up to point out the post was about listening comprehension. Let's give Gardner some credit for taking time to instruct the JJ community on the benefits of listening comprehension since reading comprehension is batting less than .500 here.
PS - It wasn't about Trump!
Re: Walmart
They and other retailers could pass along a temporary add-on Tarriff fee on Chinese goods, perhaps. As for listening and anger, no need to listen to some, like Lamumba, Schumer, Comey, Pelosi, MSM and most other democrats, their history of lies and obfuscation precede them.
And Anger relieves stress.
I have worked with Walmart as a Broker for over 30years. Trust me there is no such thing as a lost leader in their marketing program, they barely sell at cost and only do so with meat and other foods that are code dated. It’s a for profit business. They have never wavered from Sam’s mission to make money.
You're right, there's no such thing as a 'lost' leader - but a loss leader, uhmm yeah.
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