It’s the season of gratitude. Despite all of the problems and challenges the year 2020 has thrown in our paths, there are so many things for which to still be grateful. If you are reading this, you are alive and have survived the last eight months in various states of business and personal shutdowns. Some have passed away as a result of this pandemic whether it was due to a direct result of the virus or all of the other negative consequences that result from shutting down the world four months. We will greatly miss and lovingly remember each of them this holiday season.
We are
here. We are alive. And I hope we are relatively healthy. Despite the
challenges, we have so much to be thankful for this year.
Thanksgiving
2020 will be the most unique holiday I have ever experienced. Most of the Thanksgivings
I have lived through in the past 59 years have all been written from the same
script.
As a child
my family spent Thanksgiving in the tiny town of Brooksville Miss. It's where
my grandfather was born and where some of his family still lived. As a kid the
most vivid memories of those early Thanksgivings weren't of the food but of
leaves. I grew up in the Pine Belt of South Mississippi, and all we knew was pine
straw. As my mother drove north towards Brooksville, somewhere around Shuqualak,
the pine trees gave way to hardwoods. I spent most of the time at my great
uncle’s house in Brooksville outside playing in the leaves. I'm sure the food
was very good but frolicking in leaves seemed to take precedent at that age.
Times
changed quickly. Thanksgivings eventually moved to my grandmother's house around
the time I was ten years old. The food took on an entirely different seriousness
at that point. Leaves were the last thing on my mind.
The
Thanksgiving meals I serve at my home today are basically the same meal and
menu that my grandmother served in her home 50 years ago. When one finds
something that works one sticks to it. Especially when it comes to entertaining
and feeding large groups. The one difference between my grandmother’s meals and
mine is that she made homemade rolls. If I could replicate her homemade rolls—
and sometimes her biscuits— then I would do so. But I have never been able to
achieve that pinnacle of quick bread preparation, so I figure it's best to
leave well enough alone and either bring some from the restaurant or purchase
homemade rolls or biscuits that are sold in various retail outlets.
We always
have roast turkey. Sometimes I'll throw a baked or smoked ham in the mix. Thirty
years ago, I fried the turkeys at the restaurant and then brought them home to
be served for the Thanksgiving dinner. I mainly just roast them in my home oven
these days. The gravy I make is a darker gravy. It's not darker because there's
a dark roux involved, it's because I use Kitchen Bouquet which is something
that my grandmother always used to make her gravy look richer, a deeper brown, and
not that weak yellow color.
There will
always be a green bean casserole. Ours has caraway seeds and water chestnuts. The
sweet potato casserole we make is topped with pecans and walnuts and another
secret ingredient that I won't give away here, but you can see in the recipe
link attached to this column. I always challenge new guests who attend our
Thanksgiving lunches to try and figure out the secret ingredient. To date, no
one has ever guessed correctly. But the component makes a huge difference in
the flavor profile and the lightness of the sweet potato topping.
As a kid
we never served mashed potatoes at our Thanksgiving lunches. My wife's family
did and so now we now add mashed potatoes to the mix alongside the sweet
potatoes.
We never
dump cranberries out of a can, or use cranberry jelly out of a can, but use
fresh cranberries to make a reduction that is served warm and is highly
superior to any pre-packaged cranberry product.
Desserts
vary. My grandmother always had some type of cake under glass in her home, and
so the dessert served at Thanksgiving wasn't much different than whatever she
would have served if you came over to visit on a Wednesday afternoon. But it
was always good. When we moved our Thanksgiving lunches to my mother's house for
several years, I think I brought dessert from the restaurant. It was probably
pumpkin cheesecake or some type of apple pie with walnuts.
To me, the
most important component at a Thanksgiving meal is the dressing. Seriously, I
think the dressing is more important than the turkey. Actually, I could eat
just dressing with gravy and skip the turkey. Though I never do. My mother made
oyster dressing alongside cornbread dressing and it was pretty good, but I
always opted for the original. I make a cornbread dressing that comes out very
moist due to the fact it has a mushroom bechamel sauce I developed in the mix.
Again,
this is one of the areas where my wife's original family and my family parted
ways. They were into stuffing. I don't believe in stuffing a Turkey with
anything other than a few root vegetables and some garlic. So, in addition to
mashed potatoes and sweet potatoes at Thanksgiving, we have dressing and
stuffing. Though the stuffing I serve is made outside of the Turkey. Which
renders the whole process null and void if you're going to call it stuffing. But
we do it, and it saves a lot of heated marital discussions back and forth.
I
typically bring home a pumpkin cheesecake from the restaurant. It's a feature
dessert we do this time of year and it is perfect. But we are typically so full
from such a huge spread the dessert is consumed several hours after lunch.
My
favorite part of the Thanksgiving weekend are the Turkey sandwiches that I will
consume in the three days after Thanksgiving. As I prefer dressing over turkey,
I would almost rather have a leftover turkey sandwich than the more formal turkey
entrée with gravy. My version is simple I use dark meat turkey— because that is
most of what is leftover, bonus for me— toasted wheat bread with both sides slathered
with mayonnaise. Then I add a liberal amount of salt and pepper, followed by a
little lettuce, and that's all. That is one of my top five perfect sandwiches ever.
I don't know why I don't eat that more often throughout the year. The reason it
tastes good is because it comes from a roasted turkey. Deli sliced turkeys are
packed with water and don't offer the same flavor. A leftover Thanksgiving turkey
sandwich is miles ahead of a sliced deli meat Turkey sandwich from the grocery
store or a deli.
The only Thanksgiving
that has ever deviated from the typical St. John Thanksgiving was when we were
on an extended trip through Europe when the kids were young. Our agreement
going over there was, that for the entire six months, there would be no video
games, and no American fast food while in Europe. On Thanksgiving 2011— four
months into the trip— I gave them a one-meal pass on Thanksgiving and let them
eat at the Hard Rock Café in Venice. We ate nachos and cheeseburgers for our Thanksgiving
meal, we were all grateful. Amazingly enough, it’s one of my favorite
Thanksgivings, ever.
In the end
it's really not about the food. For years I thought it was about the food. But
it's about the people. We have family over for Thanksgiving, but we also have
friends over for Thanksgiving. Sometimes it's friends that we don't typically
share a meal with throughout the rest of the year. That makes it even more
special. The cast of characters changes occasionally but for the most part a
Thanksgiving meal at the St. John house is one where each of us are surrounded
by people we love, and people who love us. For that I am ever grateful.
My full
Thanksgiving meal is available at the link below. Have a blessed Thanksgiving and
let's hope this may be a catalyst to start heading towards some sense of
normalcy in the coming weeks. God bless you and your family and God bless the
United States of America. Happy Thanksgiving from the St. Johns.
Onward.
Click here for a complete Thanksgiving dinner collection of recipes.
11 comments:
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Turkeys & Dressing have CoVid-19 virus. Don.t eat
Mr. St. James, I'm the one with the big standard poodle that spoke with you last week, again I enjoy your writings.
Years ago I remember Mr. St. John's recipe for the Sweet Potato Casserole was in the newspaper and I made it for my family that Thanksgiving. It was before Katrina, because we still had our house in Long Beach. It was so good, you could eat it for dessert!
Great writing Robert. Thanks for posting it Kingfish. Happy Early Thanksgiving to everyone, except that one really crabby guy, who absolutely knows who he is.
12:49 meant St. John, damn auto correct!
Suggestion to KF: Eliminate Sid's article and post St. John's twice each week. I'd rather read St. John twice than Sid once (and I will learn more).
On my wish list for the holidays is a real, honest to God recipe for good yeast rolls. Of course the most memorable ones are from the Elite. First Baptist Church in Jackson also has good ones. Not that Sister Schubert junk either.
8:57, I'll chip in to make that happen. Amen to your comment.
Man I hope his restaurants survive. And his columns. Just a good person, and I do like eating at his places. And I enjoy his writing.
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