BARBERINO-TAVERNELLE, TUSCANY— There’s a big difference between a tour host and a tour guide. A tour guide goes through rigorous training for a particular city, region, or institution. They do a deep dive into history, dates, personalities, and minute details into towns and locales such as Florence, Italy. The detailed comprehension required to become certified is amazing and the depth of knowledge these guides possess once training is completed is impressive.
My friend, and coworker, Marina Mengelberg, is a registered
tour guide for Florence, Siena, San Gimignano, and the Tuscan region. Each of
those areas require specific training. One must know thousands of details and
facts, from structural landmarks on the city streets, to the lineage of artist’s
families, to religious history and symbolism and a depth of knowledge in architectural
details, to the point that one becomes a walking history book and reference
guide at the end of the training.
Once the intense training is complete, the hopeful guide must
sit in front of a six-person panel in a scenario that sounds a lot like defending
one's thesis. The room is crowded behind the six questioners. In a
high-pressure situation, everyone in the gallery is watching as the tour-guide candidate
spends the next hour or so answering questions such as, “In the Uffizi Gallery,
on the third floor, in the second room, and the third painting on the right,
who is that artist’s mother and why is she important?
I don't possess that kind of knowledge, nor do I have time
to do the work that would go into such training, even if my memory would allow
it. That's partially why I am a tour host. In my travels I have found certain
places that I love, locals-only restaurants, wineries, out-of-the-way historical
institutions, and local finds that I enjoy sharing with others. There's
something deep inside me that loves turning people onto new things. I've always
been that way.
I am probably the living example of the adage, “Jack of all
trades, master of none.” I don't claim to be an expert at anything but there
are a couple of areas where I feel I am extremely competent. One area in which
I believe I'm very good— and my track record proves it— is that I have some
type of intrinsic ability to pick excellent tour guides. I'm pretty good at
picking nice hotels and villas as well.
Marina Mengelberg is the ultimate example of my ability to
recognize talent and saddle up alongside it. It's obviously a major benefit
that my wife and I have become very good friends with her, and her children. Mengelberg
possesses the raw, natural ability to connect with whomever she is with at the
moment. That is the difference in a great guide and someone who can regurgitate
facts on cue.
First and foremost, a great guide must be relatable. Seems
simple, but that is not an easy thing to accomplish. Actually, it's probably
the hardest thing to do in that field. There are plenty of people who can walk
through a city or museum and recite dry facts. It's another thing to make people
feel comfortable, grateful, appreciative, and willing to learn more in the
process. There is a certain amount of charm and self-awareness that needs to be
added to the mix of knowledge and training, too. But when those components all
come together, the perfect guide is born.
Mengelberg is Dutch and grew up in the Netherlands watching
American television. Other than her God-given intelligence and natural charm, I
think that's a lot of the source of her relatability— and especially with
southerners— as one of her favorite shows as a child was the “Dukes of Hazard.”
I have never seen an episode of the “Dukes of Hazard,” but I know John
Schneider, and once had him autograph an 8 by 10 glossy for Marina.
As Baby Boomers, we also grew up on American television. That is the connection. It's not that Marina ever talks about American TV shows. That topic never comes up. It's just the sensibility is there and there is a common denominator that allows her to connect and be relatable. Connection and relatability is the key to gaining one’s trust. The learning follows, easily.
Connection is not easy. The groups I host are varied in age,
background, and region. Although they mostly come from the South. The fact that
a Dutch born person, who's lived in Tuscany for the past 20 years can connect
with Americans from California, to Florida, to Hattiesburg MS is an admirable
trait.
This tour-hosting gig happened organically and started with
the idea of taking a small group of people to Tuscany, once. That group filled
in an afternoon and a waiting list was created. Then the waiting list grew a
waiting list. After touring Tuscany several times, those guests started asking,
“Where are we going next?” I figured Venice is the most unique city in the
world, Bologna is the food capital of Italy, and Milan is beautiful at
Christmastime, so I hosted a couple of those tours. Again, they asked “Where
are we going next?” So, we toured Rome, the Amalfi Coast, and Naples.
Next Spain was added, and when I hosted that trip last March it was filled with almost all seasoned alumni of my past trips, For some it was their fourth or fifth trip with me. It should be noted that I have never been a fan of group travel. My wife and I have avoided those types of trips, always. But this is nothing like group travel. I’m not sure why it doesn’t feel that way, but it never has. It’s just like a group of friends getting together and discovering new places.
There was a group of eight ladies dining together in one of
my new restaurants just a few weeks ago. All of them had traveled with me
before some three or four times. At one point during their meal, I asked if any
of them had known each other before going on the tours. The unanimous answer
was, “No.” I’m not sure if I have ever felt more pride in something I’ve done
in this tour-hosting career. I was a small component in creating eight bonds
among newly made friends. They’re traveling with me in the future, too.
I was once invited to a reunion that was held by one of my
previous groups, as a guest. They had connected so fittingly on their trip they
wanted to stay in touch a few years later. I was not involved in planning of the
reunion other that being asked to attend as an invitee.
We released next spring’s Spain trip dates and the tour
filled in 90 minutes. The Holland-Belgium tour filled in an afternoon. Both
groups were almost all veterans. My first thought was, “I must be doing
something right on these trips.” But then I checked my ego at the door and
realized that it’s people like Marina Mengelberg, and a dozen others who make
an impact on people as they travel with me to these foreign lands. I hope each
of them know how grateful I am and that I’ll never take them for granted.
Onward.
Italian Sausage and Mascarpone Crostini
This recipe is inspired by Rosanna, a Tuscan woman who cooked dinner for a large group of Mississippians, Milanese, and Tuscan locals at Villa Il Santo. These were served with the first course.
1 loaf Ciabatta bread, sliced ¼” thick, about 16 slices
1 TB Extra virgin olive oil
1 lb. Ground Italian sausage
1 tsp Fresh garlic, minced
1/8 tsp ground allspice
1/8 tsp ground cloves
pinch nutmeg
8 oz. Mascarpone cheese
Preheat oven to 300.
To par cook the crostinis, place the sliced Ciabatta on a baking pan lined with parchment paper. Bake until almost crispy, about 10 minutes. Allow to cool completely at room temperature.
Heat the oil in a large skillet over medium heat. Add the sausage and spices and stir frequently until half-way cooked, about 3-4 minutes. Drain and set aside to cool at room temperature.
Divide the partially cooked sausage among the crostinis, about 2-3 TB each. Divide the mascarpone among the top of the sausage. Return to a baking pan lined with parchment paper and finish in the oven until sausage is cooked and cheese is melted, about 8-10 minutes.
14 comments:
So the guy says "I have never seen an episode of the Dukes of Hazard.”
So many appropriate troll comments, so little time.
Lmao at his total lack of self awareness
He seriously included boomers loving TV!
So hilariously cringe I think I might die from laughter!
I’m sure he is a nice guy. He has done well in the restaurant business and evidently in the “Tour Host” business. This is Kingfish’s Blog and he can feature anyone he likes but looks like Robert is using it as a free advertising spot. I’m fortunate to have traveled to a lot of nice places although Italy isn’t one and won’t be. I don’t mean to be tack but Mr StJohn is just a tad too pompous for me.
I’m sure he is a nice guy. He has done well in the restaurant business and evidently in the “Tour Host” business. This is Kingfish’s Blog and he can feature anyone he likes but looks like Robert is using it as a free advertising spot. I’m fortunate to have traveled to a lot of nice places although Italy isn’t one and won’t be. I don’t mean to be tack but Mr StJohn is just a tad too pompous for me.
I’ve done the Europe thing, and Italy was so overrated.
Visiting Thailand, and Vietnam was 1000X better.
Bali was a lot of fun too, as long as you can get along with Australians.
Hey 1:13 - here's a hint, hopefully it will be helpful.
RSJ's column is usually posted on Wednesday. It is always headed by "Robert St. John".
When you see those words, especially on Wednesday, scroll on down to the next item. That way you won't have to spend time posting a comment about how you don't like reading his columns, he has an ego, whatever.
Just say no! Really, its easy. Works for drugs as well, if that too is a problem.
Well...I'm fixing to go to Italy with Mr. St. John this weekend--8 days.
Will let ya know how the trip goes!!
Not sure why folks think Robert is advertising. His tours fill up within a day or two (so he must be an OK tour guide) and folks eat where they want to eat, regardless of advertisements. That is why no one other than McDs or the burger place fronted by that little country girl and that wierd looking king advertise - I know Krystal bla, bla, bla.
Here is my non advertisement recipe for you guys nad girls:
Sautéed Pork Tenderloin with Apricots and Mustard
Ingredients:
1/2 cup all-purpose flour
1 1/2 pounds pork tenderloin, sliced on the diagonal 1/2 inch thick
Salt
Freshly ground black pepper
4 tablespoons unsalted butter
1 medium shallot, finely chopped
1 parsley sprig
1 rosemary sprig
1 thyme sprig
1/4 teaspoon crushed red pepper
1 cup dry white wine
1/2 cup fresh orange juice
2 tablespoons Dijon mustard
1 tablespoon brown mustard
1 cup cherry tomatoes, halved (6 ounces)
1/2 cup dried apricots, thinly sliced
Directions:
Put the flour in a large bowl. Season the pork with salt and black pepper and dredge in the flour; tap off the excess. In a 12-inch skillet, melt 2 tablespoons of the butter. Add half of the pork and cook over moderately high heat until golden brown all over, about 8 minutes. Transfer to a plate and repeat with the remaining butter and pork.
Add the shallot, parsley, rosemary, thyme and crushed red pepperto the skillet and cook over moderate heat, stirring, until the shallot is softened, about 2 minutes. Add the wine and simmer until reduced by half, about 3 minutes. Add the orange juice, mustards, tomatoes, apricots and the pork and season with salt and black pepper. Cover and simmer until the apricots are softened and the pork is cooked through, about 10 minutes. Uncover and simmer until the sauce is slightly thickened, about 1 minute.
Y’all need to stop. Robert posts some good recipes. It’s the reason I click to read.
Is the tour hosting business a new thing?
5:32, here's my recipe for Pepper Crusted Pork Loin Filet Wrapped in Applewood Smoked Bacon:
1)Pick it up in the Sam's meat area
2)Follow the instructions on the package
3)Enjoy!
@5:56
Nah. Kingfish already censors the majority of honest comments about this insufferable, pompous manlet!
@724. This is 556. The problem with your recipe is that you buy meat from Sam’s
Barfola!
Ireland and Spain are excellent destinations. Portugal next.
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