tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post4909805223437843834..comments2024-03-28T23:48:08.527-05:00Comments on Jackson Jambalaya: Police reports show how sick the Porter case really is. Kingfishhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06184990110961727404noreply@blogger.comBlogger54125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-69425463935252088632015-02-18T11:28:15.886-06:002015-02-18T11:28:15.886-06:00Personally knowing the student involved, I think i...Personally knowing the student involved, I think it is very wrong of each of you to decide who the blame is on. I don't think you have ever been in her situation or her parents situation to determine anything. For you to call her names, say terrible things about her, makes you all idiotic. I really hope each of you come to a piece of mind and know that you obviously aren't involved to know full complete details. In this, the very sick Porters made it seem like it was all the childs fault. If they were very concerned for her, they would have talked to someone. Why don't you all act like mature adults that you claim to be and stop trying to tear down a teenage girl who was involved in a scandal. Go do your job and stop worrying about this. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-23000702008830874122015-02-14T11:25:00.567-06:002015-02-14T11:25:00.567-06:00All of this seems suspicious. First of all, the ch...All of this seems suspicious. First of all, the child's mother seem to be covering up something. I wonder what the Porter's have on her, you will agree to drop their sentence to 5 yrs. Your child was molested woman. I would not be dropping charges, I still be kicking their asses today. They should never walk this earth again. Second, why did the principal lose her job, she don't teach in the Summer time, which it was going on with the mother acknowledge. The principal should sue the school, school board and everyone involved in her losing her job. My heart goes out to this child. Everything the Porter's said sound like a lie. They should get life in jail. The Porter's must be white, surely if they was black, they would have gotten the maxium and more. Racism still alive in America, especially in Mississippi.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-73621583891388349342015-02-13T11:59:13.664-06:002015-02-13T11:59:13.664-06:00I listened to your discussion of the Porter case y...I listened to your discussion of the Porter case yesterday. You say it was disgusting, then you call it a "threesome". Let make it clear this was a gang rape and nothing else! This minor girl was groomed and brought slowly in to this strategically to make her feel as an equal participant. This is a key component of a serial pedophiles grooming technique to make the child silent and equally guilty. It's obvious, in the transcript or police report, they (the rapists) were trying to convince the authorities that the minor had a 'special power' over them. <br /><br />Then you go on with this BS about what's going to happen to these two criminals after they get out of jail and how easy it's going to be for the female to attract men. Well, maybe some the freaks that post here about how this wasn't a crime at all might, I guess. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-27705859732222724942015-02-12T08:56:38.504-06:002015-02-12T08:56:38.504-06:00It wasn't mentioned in any of the comments tha...It wasn't mentioned in any of the comments that they changed their numbers to keep out of contact with this child, outside of softball, YET she "snuck" and texted herself from their phones to retrieve their numbers. I'd say this is a very sad situation, and there's way more to it. Take my word!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-20013587580001535322015-02-11T22:19:51.999-06:002015-02-11T22:19:51.999-06:00Holy Mary, Mother of God. You dreadful people that...Holy Mary, Mother of God. You dreadful people that spout out that the girl deserves this are sick! Absolutely, vile and sick. Where on earth did you learn that a girl deserves this just because she is a girl and some horrid or pair of horrid adults entice her, brainwash her, take advantage of her vulnerable nature and therefore she is guilty. <br /><br />May God have mercy on your souls, because I think your are dispicable and vile. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-10976638851859849492015-02-11T09:56:34.024-06:002015-02-11T09:56:34.024-06:005:50 pm Those who investigate child neglect and ab...5:50 pm Those who investigate child neglect and abuse don't agree with " upping the age" to 16.<br /><br />You fail to understand how difficult it is to prosecute these cases if they go to trial.<br /><br />The victim's history and behavior is put on trial and children and teens make very bad witnesses. Any lawyer worth a damn can brutalize them in cross.<br /><br />As a result, the evidence has to be very strong for a DA to be willing to prosecute . And, KFs report indicated that it is also difficult to get the police to investigate. The mother of the victim did their work for them!<br /><br />Child abuse and molestation has nothing to do with the Puritanical cultural influences and everything to do with children being seen as their parents' property. Indeed, the first child was protected under our animal abuse laws as animals were seen as more valuable than our children!<br /><br />Every time anyone opines that the girl enticed this or brought in on themselves, I'm stunned. Adult males should be insulted by anyone who suggests they have no control so little control over their bodies.<br /><br />Here's a news flash for those kinda folks, sex starts between the ears, not between the legs!<br /><br />That myth has been perpetrated by males who needed to justify their bad behavior. <br /><br />There are women who throw themselves at men and men who are dumb enough to succumb, but we aren't discussing an adult woman. And, women who have made overtures to men and who have a shady sexual history don't succeed in prosecutions!<br /><br />Please, y'all read some books on human sexuality so we can end these myths! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-83118399613363111132015-02-11T08:53:55.833-06:002015-02-11T08:53:55.833-06:004:16 pm Your inability to engage in analytical thi...4:16 pm Your inability to engage in analytical thinking is showing.<br /><br />A 16 year old boy is not in a position of authority than a teacher is in.<br /><br />An adult should have control over their hormones! <br /><br />Have you never heard the term " in loco parentis"?<br /><br />And, that you know so little about human sexuality, psychology or child development is obvious.<br /><br />You don't know this girl or the biological reasons she could be more vulnerable than other girls her age.<br /><br />That you choose to opine in such ignorance causes me to hope you have no children now or in the future! <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-31731223127214277042015-02-10T17:50:33.291-06:002015-02-10T17:50:33.291-06:00Sex is a very odd thing in this society. People ta...Sex is a very odd thing in this society. People talking about accepting child sex should study the history of laws in Mississippi. The age of consent has only recently been upped to 16 from 14. <br /><br />The punishments for these crimes are far too severe. Even kids are finding themselves charged with sex crimes, of which all participants were willing. Puritanism is strong in these.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-4962741887106344032015-02-10T16:16:14.828-06:002015-02-10T16:16:14.828-06:0014 year girl old throws herself at her 16 year old...14 year girl old throws herself at her 16 year old boyfriend, has sex, and its ignored and called kids being kids. That same 14 year old with anyone over 18 and she's suddendly an innocent angel and the adult is the devil and a brainwashing pedophile. It's the same result people. The hypocrisy is thick. The Porters are stupid and they should be in jail. But to call this girl innocent in all this is just ignorance. I'll bet 60% of her classmates in her own grade are also having sex. Are they all innocent brainwashed angels or all kids being kids? How can you with a straight face pick and choose when a kid is brainwashed victim of systematic deviants and not just being a typical horny teenager?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-85869656273340858582015-02-10T15:10:20.118-06:002015-02-10T15:10:20.118-06:00To 2/9/15 @ 2:45 pm "This hardly ruined a chi...To 2/9/15 @ 2:45 pm "This hardly ruined a child's life" and to 2/9/15 @ 3:00 pm "I don't think there was a crime here. The lives of these educators have been ruined but not the little horn dog that wanted to play house. No rape occurred. Sex between sexually mature adults happened. It is silly and ridiculous that the teachers were arrested much less got jail time. There were no innocent children involved."<br /><br />Y'all obviously have no children of your own, are a pedophile yourself or you have no concept of the terms, Minor Child v. Consenting Adult. A 15 year old, who was brainwashed by her husband/wife softball coaches to believe that they loved her and would never hurt her, and then who was molested by these same predators and made to believe that participating in sex acts with each of them was acceptable, is still a Minor Child who cannot consent, cannot make decisions for herself, cannot drive a car by herself, cannot enter into a contract, cannot legally smoke cigarettes or consume alcohol, and cannot vote. She is hardly an adult, much less a consenting one. Sounds like y'all need to grow up and smell the coffee that innocence was lost here at the hands of those to whom she had given her trust, albeit foolishly. Foolish as a child that is...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-43033994026728191792015-02-10T13:48:00.917-06:002015-02-10T13:48:00.917-06:0010:04 am
I was responding to 6:15 am 's conc...10:04 am <br /><br />I was responding to 6:15 am 's concerns about the parents.<br /><br />I try to assume that those making outrageously inaccurate comments are ignorant on the subject matter.<br /><br />It's interesting that you feel so threatened by facts.<br /><br /> <br /><br /> <br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-83944885562100628472015-02-10T12:47:14.650-06:002015-02-10T12:47:14.650-06:00Sometimes the need for privacy and an appropriate ...Sometimes the need for privacy and an appropriate environment for recovery for the victim takes priority over the public's need to know. <br /><br />On one level, I appreciated the police report in that it satisfied much of our curiosity and answered a lot of questions about what took place. Still, I felt guilty reading it because it was somewhat of a re-victimization of this young girl. I say that because I think it's true that everyone in that community knows who the victim was. Just saying she was a member of the girls softball team narrowed the choices to 15 or so individuals. Since this was first reported, enough info has been released to where even someone living in China could figure out who the victim was with just a couple of google searches. <br /><br />This kids life was totally disrupted during a time when innocence and the adventure of becoming a young adult should have been the focus. That was taken away from her. She had to quit participating with her team in a sport she loved. She has to attend another school. No doubt friendships were lost and/or forever affected. She will always carry the reputation of being the 15 year old who had sex with both her coaches. For the rest of her high school experience she will have to contend with guys (and girls) who will want to date or befriend her because of her reputation, not because they like her for the person she is. No, this kid was definitely victimized....divulging the blow by blow details of the sexual activities she engaged in with the Porters is just wrong. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-35680828884973163772015-02-10T12:44:40.466-06:002015-02-10T12:44:40.466-06:00Basically every student in that school and most ev...Basically every student in that school and most everyone in the community know exactly who that minor is. The Initials in the video were also a dead giveaway if you weren't really sure. Along with her birthday. In my opinion she should be in some kind of serious counciling and no longer in any local school. Unless she moves to a completely different part of the state, she'll be surrounded by people who will have read every little detail about what went on. She'll be pointed out and gossiped about until she's gone to college. Kids these days aren't as sympathetic as some of you who say she's completel inncocent and will make her life miserable because of this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-1028284333019063722015-02-10T11:26:25.640-06:002015-02-10T11:26:25.640-06:00Should you be looking for clean antiseptic journal...Should you be looking for clean antiseptic journalism 9:05 then you are probably in the wrong place by seeking it here.<br /><br />How completely absurd that you condemn parents who many have "their heads in the sand" and simultaneously belittle them for potentially benefiting from the level of detail as presented in this story.<br /><br />Should Kingfish's reporting help just one set of parents, or one parent, recognize a pattern of conduct that helps alert them to a situation with their own child then the editorial decision he made after great consideration will be worth it.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-89880802181641423552015-02-10T10:22:29.073-06:002015-02-10T10:22:29.073-06:00According to "traditional morality," a r...According to "traditional morality," a rapist gets to marry his victim if she's unmarried. It's in Deuteronomy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-62512887083804514842015-02-10T10:04:00.933-06:002015-02-10T10:04:00.933-06:00That any of you don't understand the trauma th...<i>That any of you don't understand the trauma that is attached to being a victim of molestation just tells me you don't want to know or understand.</i><br /><br />LMAO. Your need to lecture <i>JJ</i> readers over and over again tells me that you are a whacked out egomaniac.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-39550802248425470702015-02-10T09:58:55.168-06:002015-02-10T09:58:55.168-06:00Kingfish did not receive permission from the victi...<i>Kingfish did not receive permission from the victim or the victim's family to post these details.</i><br /><br />He doesn't need permission. PERIOD.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-14477598528012357852015-02-10T09:39:18.983-06:002015-02-10T09:39:18.983-06:006:15 am Denial and guilt that they failed to prote...6:15 am Denial and guilt that they failed to protect their child and hoping to protect their child from the further trauma of having to be cross examined are a few of the reasons.<br /><br />Part of grooming is to win the parents trust. That is done often by making friends with the parents.<br /><br />The parents don't want to believe their judgment in people is so flawed. That calls into question their judgment about ALL people.<br /><br />Pedophiles understand this and groom the parents as well.<br /><br />Pedophiles pick jobs whenever possible that gives them access to children. They are often teachers, ministers/priests, scout leaders, coaches and those who teach outside activities.<br /><br />Pedophiles don't look different. They are often charming and married.<br /><br />Anytime an adult takes an unusual interest in your child , seeks to have alone time with your child, and especially invites the child to their home , a parent should be suspicious.<br /><br /><br />Pedophiles seek vulnerable children. So if your child is unhappy and has low self-esteem, if you are a single parent, if your spouse is rigid and especially hard on your child, if there is conflict at home that makes you child feel less safe and wishing for an escape, you are in the kind of situation a pedophile seeks.<br /><br />And, unfortunately, some of the children they seek have already been " eroticized". By that , I mean some other adult in their family circle has already been grooming the child or has molested the child.<br /><br />Sadly, most of the molestation of children is not done by strangers but someone in a position of trust.<br /><br /> There are books that can help parents. Understanding and Protecting Your Child from Molesters is one written by the Jensens. But, there are several out there.<br /><br />At any rate, the coach's testimony is very typical. Pedophiles often describe their child victims ( even as young at 18 months old) as being the aggressors and seductive. <br /><br />That any of you are so naïve as to give weight to the pedophile's testimony and fail to understand that the objective of the pedophile is to have their victims " love" them and feel the relationship is " special" astounds me!<br /><br />That any of you don't understand the trauma that is attached to being a victim of molestation just tells me you don't want to know or understand. And, I have to question why that would be so.<br /><br />5 years is not enough. We will hear from the Porters again. I understand not wanting to put the victim through more trauma. That decision is often made. But, I don't like it. Our laws to protect our children should be tougher and our law enforcement and judicial systems need to be better informed and prepared.<br /><br />The parents shouldn't have had to be doing the police work on this case!<br /><br />And, I do wonder why Children's Protective Services wasn't brought in immediately. Is it that ineffectual here so that the police don't turn to them in these cases?<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-32056223859602873792015-02-10T09:27:46.382-06:002015-02-10T09:27:46.382-06:00I went to Dennis Smith and other former reporters ...I went to Dennis Smith and other former reporters for their opinion and they read the report. Their opinion was unanimous. I followed every precaution possible. <br /><br />If you people think this is easy, it's not. When you first read this report it makes you angry, disgusted, and sick. Then you have to read it a few times so you can actually redact it and write about it. That means going through a few states. Kingfishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06184990110961727404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-66516547460338218362015-02-10T09:05:43.340-06:002015-02-10T09:05:43.340-06:00The reason these documents should never be posted ...The reason these documents should never be posted is simple: <br />when balancing the need for the public to know what happened (even including warning parents of potential problems) vs. the need for privacy of a victim, the need for privacy should always prevail.<br /><br />Kingfish did not receive permission from the victim or the victim's family to post these details. The family made the decision to NOT go to trial so their daughter would not have to relive all of this, yet having the documents posted online does just that. We can pretend that people don't know who she is because she has not been named, but that's ridiculous. People know. And now they know much more than what was said during the plea.<br /><br />Parents who need this much information in order to be better parents are likely currently parenting with their heads in the sand.<br /><br />This is sensationalism at its worst. Posting the dangers of these situations is one thing, but doing this without the consent of the family of the victim is just irresponsible.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-50809847179295962702015-02-10T08:27:28.775-06:002015-02-10T08:27:28.775-06:00"And after you knew for sure that they had mo..."And after you knew for sure that they had molested your child, why would you ask that the sentence be reduced? "<br /><br />I agree this is very strange.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-65499979985501137062015-02-10T06:15:15.228-06:002015-02-10T06:15:15.228-06:00I'm extremely glad that this information was p...I'm extremely glad that this information was posted. The public has the right to know what happened. My question is this... As a parent, if you were suspicious about this couple, why would you continue to allow your child to be around them and still be on the team. And after you knew for sure that they had molested your child, why would you ask that the sentence be reduced? Sounds fishyyyyyy!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-2497645161602262402015-02-10T05:13:47.967-06:002015-02-10T05:13:47.967-06:00It's not really all that odd that a female sof...It's not really all that odd that a female softball coach and player wind up getting involved with each other. It happens much more often than some of you can imagine. What's odd is that the coach had a husband and that he agreed to help her play out her fantasy. Role Playingnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-72679769943975382592015-02-09T22:49:55.730-06:002015-02-09T22:49:55.730-06:00"Now the teacher and student can call and tex..."Now the teacher and student can call and text each other. They can send pictures and all sorts of other groovy things via cellphone. "<br /><br />This is a firing offense at my kids' school. Emails through their school account is okay (homework, assignments, etc) but phone, Facebook, etc contacts are forbidden.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2447438783001404385.post-44287097237718276292015-02-09T21:21:29.036-06:002015-02-09T21:21:29.036-06:00You know what the problem here is? Smartphones. W...You know what the problem here is? Smartphones. When we were all teens, the only way a wayward teacher could reach us was to call our home phones- where the parent was likely to answer. <br /><br />Now the teacher and student can call and text each other. They can send pictures and all sorts of other groovy things via cellphone. <br /><br />There is no damn reason for a 14 or 15 year old to have a smartphone. Period. Parents need to know where child is, need to contact a child, fine, a bar phone or strictly cellphone works fine. <br /><br />There is on reason for them to have smartphones with cameras, and all sorts of technology that is unsupervised. <br /><br />We don't let 10 year olds play with guns. Yes, there are some mature 12 year olds who can handle handguns but there is a reason there is a law for it. Giving a 12 year old a smartphone is like giving an 8 year old a loaded gun, they aren't mature enough to handle it and when they do something stupid, it will haunt them for a long time. <br /><br />The parents give these kids these weapons of technological destruction and then are surprised when the same kids who will drive 80 mph down a regular street manage to blow themselves up with the same phone. Kingfishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06184990110961727404noreply@blogger.com